Today’s Community Scripture – 8/23/2024
– Scripture:
So be content with who you are, and don’t put on airs. God’s strong hand is on you; he’ll promote you at the right time. Live carefree before God; he is most careful with you.
1 Peter 5:6–7 MSG
– Reflection:
Be That Guy
Building community in the social context, especially in friendships, involves transforming existing friendships into real ones. This means breaking down the false images that we’ve worked hard to maintain. It requires us to display our genuine, unguarded vulnerabilities, including our flaws, failures, mistakes, and fears to our friends. This is not an easy task. What’s even more challenging is that it often requires us to take the first step. Authenticity goes against the prevailing culture. Look around, and you’ll find that few people truly experience authentic friendship. Therefore, if we choose to pursue it, we may find ourselves leading the way and feeling alone for a while.
Where do we go from here?
Someone must go first. Somebody always does. Be courageous. Pray boldly, brother: “If someone must, let it be me.” Among your group of friends, be that guy. It’ll be scary, sure. It might not go really well. But, that’s okay. We men are built for this kind of stuff. We’d wither without opposition. And it’s all worth it. This can be some of the most important work we’ll ever do. “Why would we do it then? Why would we choose authenticity? It’s because only through being true to ourselves can we truly transform and become more like Christ. We can’t become more like him if we’re hiding or pretending to be someone we’re not. Embracing authenticity allows us to embody the character of Jesus Christ and also helps our friends do the same. Although as men, few of us are willing to take the first step, most of us will follow those who do. When one of us shows courage and humility, it inspires others to do the same. Taking the first step is both holy and heroic. It places us at the forefront of God’s mission, which is to heal the brokenhearted and free the captives.”
Our Pray for Today
Father, thank you for allowing us to be ourselves and giving us the strength to support others to do the same. It’s a true blessing to start each day knowing that we are surrounded by people who genuinely want to be there with us. Thank you for the grace and mercy of this day, Jesus. Amen.